Do you want any of these?
Well, there’s good news: you can have what you want!
Imagine, your wife looking at you like she used to when you were dating. Remember the romance? The nights you talked for all hours? How you looked forward to seeing her when you were apart? And, how excited she was to see you?
It’s time to regain what’s been lost. Nobody wants stress, arguing & fighting, a lack of intimacy, or distrust in their marriage. Nobody.
It’s possible for things to be better than they are right now, even if you don’t know how to get there. It's not your fault that you weren't told how to have all that you want, how to make marriage work. If you're like most of husbands, you don't understand why things changed. They just did.
I want you to know that there’s a way you can regain the relationship you had and that you can make it even better. Do you want to know how? Do you want to make it happen?
In this Challenge, we are going to implement and act on one marriage key that has the potential to produce amazing changes: HONOR.
In order to receive honor, love, and respect, we must first give honor, love, and respect. Yes, I know you have done that, and maybe your wife didn't respond. But, you want her to - you want something different out of her.
So, how's this different? We're going to take action that shows respect & honor to our wives without regard to what she does in return. The thing is, you do something with the goal of getting your wife to respond, she sees right through it, and it won't work. She sees it as manipulative.
If you do something that shows honor because you are a man of honor, without regard to how she responds, she is going to wonder what's going on. She will not trust it at first if she's not used to you doing that, but eventually, she will be affected in profound ways.
Women are attracted to men who are strong and who act with honor regardless of circumstances. It's a sign of weakness when a man needs a response from his wife. Think about it. If your only okay when your wife responds in the "right" way, then you're only doing as good as she treats you. Who has the power in that situation? But, if you do the right thing and are not wrecked if your wife doesn't respond in the "right" way, you occupy the stronger position. You become the leader in your marriage.
In this challenge, I want to encourage you in the stronger position. I want to help you take determined, deliberate action to give your wife honor, even when she doesn't deserve it. I want to help you act as and be the leader in your marriage. In so doing, you will begin to realize what you really want out of your marriage.
Although it may sound crazy, this is real. I know, because I live it every day. My wife and I have been married for 30 years, and our marriage is better now than ever! I have had to learn to do what is right no matter what, even when she doesn't acknowledge it, not matter how much I want her to acknowledge it. How I act sets the tone for our relationship. I can make a difference in my marriage, and so can you.
What’s your marriage going to be like after 30 years? What do you want it to be like? Do you want it to be like it is now? Let’s face it, most marriages don’t last 30 years. I think that’s a shame, and I want your marriage to be the exception.
But, to be the exception, you have to do something different.
I wish someone had taught me how to make my marriage incredible when I was a young husband. I had to figure it out through the challenges, difficulties, and unrealized expectations. That's normal, I guess, but it doesn't have to be that way.
I want to help you experience transformation in your marriage.
Are you a husband who desires more and better in your marriage. That's who this is for. Is that you?
Let me show you the way. Your transformation begins when you implement this one principle: honor. It’s power is unlocked when you put it into practice.
You no longer have to just want things to change. You can make things change. The opportunity is here.
Take the challenge! 21 days to unleash the potential of your marriage!
All you have to do is sign up to be part of the 21-Day Honor My Wife Challenge.